Finding The True Human Best Friend - by Dadang kadarusman

Finding The True Human Best Friend

Hooray, a New Day! Friends.

Every human being needs a best friend. In your opinion, is it true? I think yes. We all crave to have companions in our lives. Now try to remember back to about the friends you'll ever have. Then choose who among them who deserve the title as the best friend for you. If you select it, then ask again, how come he can be called a best friend for you?

I was born and raised on a farm that is still shrouded atmosphere of the outdoors. My dad has a variety of livestock that must be guarded day and night. Therefore, we maintain some of the dogs. We are fully aware that many people who assess the situation for the dog. But among a number of bad side, we found many good sides are amazing. In fact, dogs exhibit many positive qualities that are ignored by humans.In fact, people should still have all that goodness. For those of you who are interested in accompanying me to learn about the goodness of the behavior of dogs, I invite you to begin by understanding the five points of view following the Natural Intelligence:

1. A good speech always gets a good place. Assessed the quality of a dog from barking. Even if you do not have a dog, you can distinguish the barking of threatening with a warm friendly bark. Humans are also the same. We judge people by what was spoken by the tongue. We tend to like people who have manners and polite speech.Instead, we are not too comfortable communicating with those who are rude and arrogant. Then it is worth if our parents are advised to always keep the oral. Due to frequent verbal 'fate' someone. Although dog owners tend to like their own dog barking, but they also recognize if someone else has a barking dog better than her dog. Although humans have many differences and tend to prefer the opinion of each group, but everyone understood the 'universal language' which contains messages about kindness. So, when you are voicing the message of goodness, surely most people love it. They did not question what your religion, or the amount of money you how. Because every good speech, always get a good place, good hearts of people.

2. Good behavior produces a good reputation. The quality of a dog is also judged by his behavior. In my hometown, there used to be a very vicious dog owned by a merchant. He often attacked passers-by, even to bite. Entire village knows it's bad reputation. Every time the dog was wandering, stoned people. There are also dog friendly, so people know about the goodness of our kampong dog. To him, no one dared to interfere. Not only dogs whose reputation was built by his behavior. Humans are more than that. We judge a person not just from his words, but rather the behavior. For humans, the behavior may be the only determining factor reputation.Imagine if you read my article, then you find my behavior contrary to what I wrote in those articles. Imagine you are listening to someone speak, but the behavior is different from 180 degrees with his words. No one can have a good reputation with bad behavior. Because only the good behavior that could produce a good reputation.

3. Throw away the propensity for brash. Program Dog Whisperer on National Geographic's story about the dogs that took power from his master. We think that the dog is being submissive. Apparently not. Precisely dog ​​can be demanding creatures and want power. Cesar Millan the Dog Whisperer to explain that 'lack of teaching' the dog because his master was wrong to devote their love. If he always gives what they want the dog for example, then the 'expectations' will continue to increase so that he would be upset if one day his wish was not fulfilled. Lho, kok ya just like human nature? If 'any' easily fulfilled our desires, we often fall into greed. If an when the desire was not fulfilled, then we are angry. We are angry with parents, bosses, subordinates, or leader. In fact we are angry at God 'did not grant our prayers. " Dog Whisperer show that instead of love we should be channeled in ways that educate.Among others 'is not easy to deliver' what is desired by our dog. The dog must know that there are no results without effort. Even he must know if there is a desire that should not be filled. That way, he will grow into a dog that behaves well. Perhaps, we also must realize that while not all our prayers come true, maybe God is educating us to become a better person.

4. Have a high loyalty and obedience. It has long been a dog called the faithful animals. However, when loyalty has become a general nature then it is no longer a determining factor advantages over other dogs dogs. Now, the quality of a dog were also measured from obedience to the orders of his master. Many competitions are organized to fight for that aspect of excellence. If he says "Sit!", An obedient dog will sit. "Lie down!". "Jump!". "Chase!". "Fetch!" And various other commands. Dogs are most patuhlah who fared best. Humans often acknowledge that we are menghamba to God. "Servant," is how we label ourselves. We pledge to put God as a host for us.So humans are also measured fidelity of obedience to the commandment of his Lord."Sami'na. Wa-atho'na. We hear and we obey. "Whatever the word of the Lord's command, we are willing to follow him. The Lord says; "akhlakmu guard," then we look after. Perintahkah God; "stay away from property that is not yours by right," we are away. God said; "carnal passions subdued," then we conquer. Our loyalty is determined by our obedience to His commands. At a minimum, we can fulfill God's commandments are obligatory. Better yet, if we can equip it with a legal Sunnah.

5. Friends with the real human best friend. Recently there is an article released the results of research that states that the dog was no longer a human best friend. His position has been replaced by computers. Yes, at least that's what happened to me. It is no longer possible to keep a dog in my neighborhood today. However, whether this fact really had shifted his dog as human best friend? Who is the real human best friend? Dog or Computer? Perhaps we can answer it by first determining the criteria best friend. Is "Near You Always There," could represent your needs to the best friend? Yes. The best friend is he who is always there whenever and wherever we needed him. Whether a dog, or a computer that can meet those criteria? My dog ​​can not go to school. My computer often runs out of battery. If so, not both. So is there any that can meet the criteria that weight? Teacher tells the life of me saith the Lord; "If they ask you about me, say that I'm this close." He added, "Even closer than his own neck veins." Is not He who always keeps our heart still beating? Indeed, We have the real human best friend.

We often judge a dog as a dirty and unclean animals. Maybe it's true. But the dog has the noble qualities which we ought to imitate. Imitate a dog? Of awkward if we imitate the nature of the animal. But does not God did not create anything for a vanity?Perhaps, God created the dog so that we can be more aware that we are creatures with a higher degree. So if we are imitating a dog's bad behavior, we need to be ashamed and stop behaving like that. Should not we keep the bad behavior. And if we see any positive side to the dog, then it is appropriate if we learn to have better quality than that. That way, we can put ourselves in the position should be. The position that God bestowed, namely a creature more noble than any other creature.

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Dadang Kadarusman - August 3, 2011
Natural Intelligence Master Trainer & Inventor
Website: http://www.dadangkadarusman.com

Footnote:
Where is the glory of our great glorifying it, if we are still only poorly imitate animal behavior?

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Flying With The Kite - By Dadang Kadarusman

Article: Flying With The Kite

Hooray, a New Day! Friends.

"Let life flow like water," was the advice that we often hear. However, there are times when the water flow does not lead us to the proper place. Then we begin to question many things. When faced with a difficult situation, we question: why did God let me experience this? When required to follow the rules, we sue, how come I was not given the freedom? When experiencing a loss, we blaspheme; why can not I have it forever? Sometimes we feel tired of following the flow of water, so then we ask: Can we fly it?

One childhood dream that is often present in my sleep is when the kite-flying. Last night I even dreamed about it again. This morning I wondered why I often dreamed about a kite? I can not escape the question though has been trying to forget. In the bathroom, in a television room, in front of the computer. My head was just filled with questions: 'why should a dream about a kite? "I have not really gratified to find that the kite hide the various signs of life. For those of you who are interested in accompanying me learning to fly with his kite; my invite to start by understanding the five points of view following the Natural Intelligence:

1. To be able to fly high we need a forging. Kite can only fly if there is wind that hit him. Try to remember back, not as a child you be disappointed if disore days there was no wind to fly a kite you? Our lives are about, too. Winds blowing was not unlike that forged by exposure to our lives. We often think that the quiet-paced life that much better. More comfortable perhaps yes. But better? Not necessarily. Precisely-paced life in quiet and comfortable, we are not compelled to exert all the capabilities we have. Imagine when everything in life you're fine. Are not you interested to sweat more? In fact, maybe that's just the persistence with sweat yourself getting tested.Your gratitude unearthed. And the value of empathy to others becomes increasingly explored. Kites need wind to fly high. We, requires forging and exams for life could rise to levels higher personal value. So upon entering a period full of trials and temptations, we may need to be more grateful. Because we have a chance to fly higher.

2. To survive we need the control and rules. What happens if the thread was broken?The kite will be lost, right? He needs a thread that tied him to fly well. The thread that control and give direction to turn right, left, or even spinning. In short, the kite takes control devices to regulate it. Imagine if our lives are left without control. We thought he could fly freely? No. Instead we need something to control our lives. Value system, social order, social structure, or set of rules that we must obey. Mistaken if we think life will be better without the rule. Why? Because people tend to be a strong desire to take advantage at most. While the weak people tend to be trampled. Without rules, we tend to act as they pleased. We achieved an important goal. Consider again the kite string was broken. Did she fly higher? Maybe. When the wind side to him. But after the wind stopped blowing, he will fall with no one to him also longer. Such is our life, if no controls and rules.

3. Life is about attracting and stalling. What's the fun of kite-flying if he just left idle.Precisely the pleasures we feel when we pulled and stretched nylon yarn that binds the kite. With the pull that he could turn around or perform amazing maneuvers. Then we are stretching again, pull back, and stretching again. Sometimes he was away, sometimes closer. Our lives seem so. There are so many things in our lives that go away. We are often unhappy. There are many other things that come close. We often find it hard to accept. Though life is about over and away. Come and go. Arise and sink. That's how life is perfect-perfect. That life has a complete dynamics played. No one lives happily continues, believe me. Even those with abundant wealth. Color in life are not obtained from pleasure-paced life. In fact, the pleasure we have often lose their meaning if we never knew 'not enjoyable' what it is. We chew a bite of rice, will taste better if we just feel how much pain of not having food. Delicious healthy body is just beginning to really we became aware we were sick. The beauty of life lies in a combination of tensile and stretching it.

4. Learning to fly in the beauty. First, the shape of the kite is not too much. The variation is at most on the fins and tail are longer added accessories. Now, we can see the kite in the creations that have never previously imagined. There is a plane flying, dragon, and even cruise ships. A lot of new things around us. We often do not realize if the people around us continue to create endless. We often feel all that is in us already become the best, but we do not notice what kind of progress has been achieved by others. Go to the kite festival. There you will find a wide range of stunning creations. Go to a community of creative people, then we will realize that we must be more creative. Meet good people, then we will be compelled to become better. They not only invites us to fly, but teaches how to fly in the beauty of temperament, and other positive behaviors.

5. Fly your kite as high. While playing a kite, we always want to fly it as high as possible. We let them rise to the highest heavens. The higher, the better. Why so?Because it is our nature to like something of high value. High quality. The most perseverance. Personal values ​​are high. And high moral character. In fact we call an animal that resembles human behavior as a moral low. Indulgence of lust.Shameless. Greedy. Everything does not fit the blueprint of our personality. Inherently we understand that man was created with a higher value compared with other creatures. Therefore, it is appropriate if the behavior and our actions reflect that. If we are tempted to do the deed 'like animals', remember that we were created with a higher degree than they are. No wonder if we learn to free ourselves from animal behavior and appetite. Because God has created us in degrees and a much higher level. Pantasnya, with all the heights God has bestowed it, we can learn to further enhance the value of our humanity. Because God is high, and there is nothing higher than himself. And He, can only be achieved by individuals who have a noble character that is reflected in the behavior of high value.

Every day, we are dealing with the forging and the wind of life. We often want to stop because it embarrassed face temptations that come repeatedly. In fact, the trials we face it is the path to levels higher personal value. The teacher had to remind my life; "Do not think yourself as a good man, but God has not test you with temptations that make it difficult." My teacher was right. How easy to be good when things are all beautiful. However, occasionally try to imagine if our lives are not that good. Can we become a person who is also good? Hopefully we can take each test and trials of life with the best. And we pass to ascend to higher levels.

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Dadang Kadarusman - August 2, 2011
Natural Intelligence Master Trainer & Inventor
Website: http://www.dadangkadarusman.com

Footnote:
God has not given trial exceeds the ability of his servant. If we have not been able to live it, maybe we have not really accept it as given.

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Stop delegating your task

Maybe you think the title of my article as a joke. How could I dare to violate the standard of leadership that has long been used of people. Is not delegating is one of the important skills in leadership? I earnestly invite you to stop delegating your tasks to anyone in your office. Although the 'technical delegation' is very suitable for the transfer of responsibility to others, or it could be a reason to complain about the unpreparedness of others in accepting assignments that we give; but 'delegating' is no longer able to meet the challenges of leadership in this era. So, you should just quit delegating tasks to others.

So far, we believe that to be able to effectively perform the function of leadership, one must be skilled at delegating tasks. At least, that's taught in training classes and leadership books. However, we often forget the real world is not always in line with theories that are taught. Is not that the theory is inconsistent with our actual needs on the ground, should be left alone? For those of you who are interested to accompany me to learn to understand that the delegation is no longer relevant to the leadership challenges we face, I was invited to start by applying 5 Natural Intelligence capabilities following:

1. Be aware that the responsibility we can not be transferred to others. There is always a tempting opportunity to throw the responsibility to others. That way we have more free time, and could berkeja with more relaxed. Try to remember back, how many leaders are throwing their responsibilities to subordinates, and then blame them when the results were judged unsatisfactory? Not a few leaders who are caught up in blaming this kind of mental. In fact, just as you are not satisfied if your salary transferred to someone else, then so is the professional responsibility that you bear; should not be transferred to others.

2. Realize that the delegation of causing others to feel ketiban your work. Ask yourself: Do you like the moment when someone gave the job to you? When you judge that he should do it yourself, then your little heart would say: "if i the kerjain perkejaan elo, elo doing then?" Perhaps, the people you give the delegates were saying the same words. But, of course, not out of their mouths. So, even if they invite you to delegate your work, they expect you to do it to someone else. Anyone do their origin.

3. Realize that no one liked the additional duties. How many jobs have you completed? Every year is always growing, right? The good news is, it does not only happen to you. Other people are also the same. Look at the people around you. In fact, the work they were already a lot, and even then still will grow again from year to year. Now, let's imagine if they had a lot of work was compounded by the delegation that you provide to them. Roughly, they received the delegation was happy or not huh?To find the answer, you can ask yourself: if someone gives you an additional task. I doubt if you accept it gladly. Why? Because, basically, no one likes the extra duty.

4. Realize that people can accept an assignment with a sense of necessity. If one can not accept additional duties gladly, even if accepted it would mean he had to do with feelings. Maybe they were forced to because of fear. May fear being scolded, because they often get angry. May fear the layoffs because they often hear someone easily sing a song titled 'fire'. It may also be fear of being called disloyal, and so many other possibilities that make them forced to accept it. The types of keterpakasaan can only be understood if you are wearing clothing labeled empathy.

5. Realize that you can not expect much from those who felt forced. Your reputation is largely determined by the quality completion of your duties and responsibilities entailed. Therefore, someone who wants to maintain its reputation remains good must ensure that no defects in any of his work. So, what can we expect from people who feel compelled to do something other than work at random? It's too risky to delegate your tasks that are important to others. Since you can not expect the quality of work and achievements of those who bully feel forced.

If you still have doubts about what I am describing; you're not alone. It is not easy to escape from the grip-long grip is already ingrained. Even many who insisted on saying: "My enjoy-enjoy aja tuch with assignments that I give." They say: "If mendelagasikannya correctly, certainly not the case the negative things like that." However, it was time to test re premises delegation of your convictions. Hopefully all five aspects of the above can give an idea of ​​how the delegation is no longer relevant to the context of leadership in this century. But ... if it's not delegate the task of leading the techniques that are reliable, then is there any other techniques that can be relied upon? Of course there is. What is it? May we have a long life to deal with it in the next article yes. Stay tune with us.

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